What Would We Lose by Defining Who We Are As Men?

If we stepped into the light–finally becoming visible for the multi-dimensional, powerful, beings we are–we could move mountains. Ruelon.com unapologetically stands for the support and visibility of same gender loving men of color.
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The Evolution Of My Pride

The Evolution Of My Pride

The long, narrow, wooden staircase led me to my personal hell. How did I get here? Why am I here? These are the questions I asked myself while trapped at the Ugly Mug bar in Washington DC. It was Memorial Day Weekend, Black Gay Pride, and to quote the amazing Loretta...

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I’m Back Baby!

I’m Back Baby!

Hey you! It’s been a minute. My last post was September 7, 2021. I made a conscious decision at the time that I was going to focus on starting a new chapter. Ruelon.com would have to take a backseat to my peace and overall mental health. What have I been doing? I’ve...

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The Unicorn In The Family

The Unicorn In The Family

You have no control over the family you're born into. I was fortunate to have an amazing childhood with loving and supportive parents. My sister, to this day, is one of my best friends. We're cut from the same cloth and our similarities are uncanny right down to how...

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What Are You Wearing?

What Are You Wearing?

Twitter isn't the most forgiving place. Whenever I see some poor soul getting dragged over the proverbial coals on the fickle platform, I ask two questions. Is the dragging warranted? If yes then proceed with popcorn and sit back and enjoy the show. Is it...

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Are You Husband Material?

Are You Husband Material?

To be or not to be husband material, that is the question. As a child, I can recall hearing my mother, and aunties talk about what constitutes a good man but I must admit, I never quite understood what it meant to them, nor its connection to potential marital bliss....

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2020 Is Still Your Year

2020 Is Still Your Year

I'm so ready to put up the Christmas tree and ring in the new year. After surviving the first half of 2020, who could blame me? I know it's the end of summer, we're still in phase one of a pandemic and drowning in social unrest, but this year sucker-punched us all and...

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