Sharing My Truth: The Ultimate Confidence Builder

Sharing My Truth: The Ultimate Confidence Builder

  Social gatherings often gave me stomach pains. Avoiding eye contact with people, and trying to remain in the background were my defense techniques to evade the “who are you dating” questions. My responses of course were often rehearsed.   Although I was...
Is Instagram The New Grindr?

Is Instagram The New Grindr?

It’s rough out here in these social media streets. The world domination of Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram have evolved to the point of allowing our obsession with being connected, to become part of our daily routine. Move over coffee and bagels, mornings just aren’t...
5 Ways To Fight The Post Vacation Blues

5 Ways To Fight The Post Vacation Blues

Your plane has landed. After going through baggage and customs, your exhaustion sets in due to several days of leisure. You are now beginning your second descent back to your reality. Brick by brick, your mind begins to put up a wall of protection. An impenetrable...
The Fight: Choosing To Leave The Comfort Of Pain

The Fight: Choosing To Leave The Comfort Of Pain

  Life is hard. There is no getting around that fact. There are however, insurmountable pockets of joy that I’ve been told, should even the scale. What if it doesn’t though? What if there are just extreme circumstances that occur in your life that are beyond...
10 Things Gay Men Need To Leave In 2018

10 Things Gay Men Need To Leave In 2018

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.” Yeah, it was the latter that summed up my 2018 but I’m a hopeless optimist at the end of the day. Whether the year has made you, or broke you, we as same gender loving men can all agree that there are some things...
Are Man Weaves For You?

Are Man Weaves For You?

There was a time when folks across social media platforms were claiming beards are the new six-pack. I for one did not, but I did start growing one in early 2015.  One of the reasons I decided to pledge my allegiance to the illustrious beard gang was that it provided...