What Would We Lose by Defining Who We Are As Men?

If we stepped into the light–finally becoming visible for the multi-dimensional, powerful, beings we are–we could move mountains. Ruelon.com unapologetically stands for the support and visibility of same gender loving men of color.

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What Are You Wearing?

What Are You Wearing?

Twitter isn't the most forgiving place. Whenever I see some poor soul getting dragged over the proverbial coals on the fickle platform, I ask two questions. Is the dragging warranted? If yes then proceed with popcorn and sit back and enjoy the show. Is it...

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Are You Husband Material?

Are You Husband Material?

To be or not to be husband material, that is the question. As a child, I can recall hearing my mother, and aunties talk about what constitutes a good man but I must admit, I never quite understood what it meant to them, nor its connection to potential marital bliss....

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2020 Is Still Your Year

2020 Is Still Your Year

I'm so ready to put up the Christmas tree and ring in the new year. After surviving the first half of 2020, who could blame me? I know it's the end of summer, we're still in phase one of a pandemic and drowning in social unrest, but this year sucker-punched us all and...

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