What Would We Lose by Defining Who We Are As Men?
If we stepped into the light–finally becoming visible for the multi-dimensional, powerful, beings we are–we could move mountains. Ruelon.com unapologetically stands for the support and visibility of same gender loving men of color.
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Island Life, Sunshine And Paradise : 6 Reasons Why You Need To Book DRTakeover For Your End Of Summer 1st Class Experience
Circuit events or “Prides” as it's affectionately called in the black gay community, was something I avoided like the plague in the past. My perception of these events was that they were a ridiculous opportunity for individuals who led a vapid existence to have an...
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Dying From Within, Finding My Power, And Discovering I Am Not Fixed: My Journey Of Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable – Part 3
There is power in truth. That power introduced me to something I never knew was possible, Freedom. It is after all, what is responsible for allowing me to begin speaking on all aspects of my life with family and friends. It also gave me the courage to be vocal about...
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Vampires, Social Media, Compassion, and The Road Less Traveled: My Journey Of Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable – Part 2
Ever since I was a child, I’ve been obsessed with the Vampire movie genre. Interview with the Vampire is one of my all time favorite films. An ex boyfriend once asked me, why do you love such wild stories about the undead so much? Although I could not provide an...
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How I Came Out To My African American Father From The Rural South In An Old Payphone Booth In New York City: My Journey Of Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable – Part 1
On a hot summer day in June 2013, I stood in an old pay phone booth in New York City. I was to have a conversation that I would remember for the rest of my life. It was on this day that I told my African American father from the rural south that I was gay. I didn’t...
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Naked Gay Men On Instagram Should Be Paid Political Surrogates
It’s official; we are now living in a post Trump world. Regardless of whom you voted for, it’s pretty clear to Ruelon.com that Hillary Clinton missed an opportunity to tap into an under utilized source of support, naked gay men on Instagram. If you’re willing...
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From the Closet to the Grave
There is a culture that exists between many men in which remaining closeted is preferred. I’m not speaking of the teenaged boy fearful of being thrown out the house for being gay, or individuals living in countries where laws forbid same gender loving people to live...
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Harlem: The Ultimate Side Piece
Over the summer, I met with friends in Harlem for brunch on a beautiful, late summer, Sunday afternoon. I’ve had a growing love affair with this part of the city and feel so much energy each time I walk those streets. As Harlem still continues to change its cultural...
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Are You Fit Enough for Vacation?
Are you fit enough for vacation? If you’re shuffling off to the most recent circuit event with the crew, it’s a legitimate question you’ve asked yourself a million times.
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Trading in Your Style for Swagger
What is the gay uniform? As you trade in nightclubs and bars, for lounges and vacations, be sure to trade up your style with some swagger.
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Have Black Gay Men Thrown Openly Gay Athletes to the Lion’s Den?
Openly gay athletes; are we missing the point with these men who are proudly staying true to their declarations? Or, have we thrown them to the lion’s den?
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6 Ways to Make Your Man Crush Monday Appear Out of Thin Air
If you’re ready to manifest a loving partnership into your life, below are 6 great ways to make your Man Crush Monday appear out of thin air…
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Monifah Says Take One Moment for You
R&B legend and gay Icon Monifah, has recently released a bold and addictive bass ridden single titled One Moment. It’s a powerful self-love anthem for anyone who feels they just need to escape the pressures of the world. Even if its just to your bedroom.
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